"You are doing something really hard with a lot of love—and not enough spaces where someone asks how you actually are."
(Someone should have created this sooner—but hey, it's here now.)
We center the baby's development (as we should) but somehow the mama's development just gets...skipped. Like yeah, she's fine. She's an adult. She'll figure it out.
And she does—eventually—usually alone—usually at 2am, usually with a lot of unnecessary guilt along the way. Am I right or am I right??
That's the gap MILF & Tea is here to fill.
A mothers' circle for the full-range, multidimensional mama—the one who loves her kids fiercely AND is so much more than someone's mother. Both things. Fully true. At the same time.
Every session we sip tea, we vent for exactly 30 seconds, we brag for exactly 30 seconds, we say what's actually real—and then we go somewhere real together.
Identity. Desire. Rage. Grief. The body. Sisterhood. The becoming. The stuff that never gets airtime.
We open with the Triple 30—30 seconds to vent, 30 to brag, 30 of what's actually real.
Identity shifts, matrescence, desire, values, aliveness—the stuff underneath the school run and the mental load. We'll explore a mix of somatic practice, rituals, journal prompts, and juicy group convos.
A takeaway, an intention, and a group of mamas who actually get it. You don't have to figure this out alone.
You looked in the mirror recently and thought "wait...who even is that?"
You love your kids so much it physically hurts and you need to be completely alone immediately
You're craving mamas to actually do life with—not just survive alongside
You want a space that's rich, real, and a little witchy—thank you very much
You're doing something really hard with a lot of love and not enough witnesses
You're ready to stop figuring it out alone at 2am and figure it out together instead
Mama of soon-to-be three, matcha lover, mischief-maker, and guide for women in the wilds of identity, eros, expression, and belonging.
I created MILF & Tea because becoming a mother cracked me open like nothing I'd ever experienced before. And to be totally honest—I felt so effing alone and lost.
So, naturally, I went looking for the space that could hold all of it. The blowouts (diapers and emotions). The questions like "who the hell am I now?!" The unraveling of past identities I SWORE were me...but no longer fit. The grief. The rage. The desire. The becoming.
I couldn't find it. So I built it. 💅🏻
For over a decade I've been in the world of transformation—building a 7-figure coaching company, founding a practitioner certification school, and guiding thousands of women through identity, purpose, and power reclamation. In the realm of mama magic specifically, I'm a MotherCircle Facilitator, Birth Story Medicine Listener, and Mother Studies Student.
That holy-shit-this-is-what-I've-been-missing connection? To yourself, your power, and others on this wild ride? That's what we're building here. Let's do this—together. 🖤🫖
Muuuuch more fun. Significantly more tea—the literal, hot, pipin', juicy kind AND the spill-your-truth kind.
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